One Night Stand-Up

On Friday, October 4, Stockton Entertainment Team (S.E.T.) sponsored an event called One Night Stand-Up, a comedy show featuring Thomas Dale. My friends and I heard about the comedy show, which started promptly at 8:00, about 15 minutes prior to the event; needless to say, we quickly ran to the Performing Arts Center Box Office to purchase our tickets. We then settled into our balcony seats and waited for the show to begin.

Within the first five minutes of his act, Dale confessed his love for “straight boys.” He singled out a member of the audience named Nick and repeatedly made references such as, “Don’t put it on display if it’s not for sale,” to him throughout the course of the night. Dale’s material ranged from being a gay teenager and dating girls to fighting off mountain lions on hikes in Los Angeles. He certainly did not censor his material, which was somewhat awkward considering the event was part of homecoming and family weekend. Many college students were sitting with their parents, and I could sense their uneasiness when I occasionally scanned the room. Regardless, there was never a shortage of laughter in the room. By making fun of both male and female characteristics, he was relatable to everyone—even parents.

Dale’s underlying message was subtle but clear: embrace equality. He told an anecdote about pretending to want to marry a bug for his nephew’s amusement. His nephew said something along the lines of: You can’t marry that bug! He’s a boy. Dale replied, “You can marry whoever you want. Boys can marry boys. Boys can marry girls. Girls can marry girls. The real problem is that he’s a bug.” Dale’s tone and mannerisms were truly endearing, and I could not help but feel like we had a real connection by the end of the show.

After his performance, Thomas Dale stood by the entrance of the PAC and posed for pictures. My friends and I took a picture with him, followed him on twitter, and friended him on Facebook. Now, he is not just a comedian but a friend. So while the ticket may have cost two dollars, the experience was priceless.

Let’s Go Ospreys!

Playing volleyball all four years through high school was a big part of my life. Coming to Stockton and knowing they had a great volleyball was very exciting to me because that meant I was able to continue to watch and love the sport. On November 5, 2015 the volleyball team was having an important game at 7 PM in Big Blue. If they won this meant that the team would advance to the NJAC tournament final for the eighth consecutive time. The team they were playing was the Ramapo Roadrunner from the Ramapo College of New Jersey, which is located very close to my home.

        The game started out in Stockton’s favor. The Ospreys started off the evening in fine shape as they came out to a 15-9 lead. They won the first set 25-15 Lindsey Schuele and Stephanie Kovacs had five kills each, which set up a good pace for the Ospreys.

        The second and third sets of the match did not go in Stockton’s favor. To start off the second set the Ospreys held a 12-9 lead, but Ramapo used a 13-2 run to take a 22-14 lead. They ended the match with the 25-19 victory. A hitter on the Ramapo team registered 13 kills while the whole Stockton team registered just 10 kills the entire set. The third set was an intense match with many long volleys and difficult calls made by the officials. Schuele kept Stockton close with six kill in this set. The teams battled back-and-forth during the third set but the Roadrunners scored the last three points and came out on top by a slim 26-24 margin. In volleyball the set is normally played to 25 but teams have to win by two points so they had to play to 26 in this case.

        The fourth and fifth set the Ospreys gathered themselves. The team took set number four with a score of 25-17. Middle hitter Idi Uffen had a great set and took charge with five kills and two blocks during the period. The fifth set is played only to 15. Stockton led 5-2 early but later fell behind 11-8. With the score tied 15-15, Shannon Clark placed a kill deep into the Ramapo corner for a one-point lead at 16-15. The Ospreys came away with the final point and the win 17-15 to advance to the NJAC championship match. In the last set, Schwartz came up huge with six of Stockton’s eight kills plus two blocks.

        Going to the volleyball was a fun and exciting experience, I thoroughly enjoyed watching the sport that I played throughout high school at a higher level and watching the team battle through tough spots to come out winners together at the end.

Seaview

 

As a Hospitality & Tourism Management major, I decided to take “Introduction to Hospitality” my freshman year. I wanted to get a head start to furthering my education in the field I’m interested in. On October 3rd, we had a chance to visit Stockton’s Seaview Hotel and Golf Club.

Instead of going to class on campus, we all met in the lobby of Seaview. I was the first one there so I was a little nervous that I had the wrong date or time. However, one of my fellow classmates, who lives at Seaview, came down and we waited for the rest of the class together. Once the whole class had arrived, Mike Tidwell, Director of Sales and Marketing, began our tour of the hotel. We were shown the dinning hall and the many event rooms Seaview has to offer their guests and customers. The whole place was beautiful and in top shape. It was the first time since I was a child in Seaview.

Mike answered many questions about the business. He stressed the importance of data, and gave us an example of the type of budgeting he does every year. We didn’t get to see as much of the hotel as I would’ve liked to, but I learned a lot from Mike talking to us. The trip excited me more about getting into the business. I’m ready to pay my dues and work my way up the hospitality ladder.

Freshmen Convocation Blog Post #2

Samuel Connery

Life of the Mind

Professor Lenard

30 September 2015

Blog Post #2

Over the summer we had to read “Whistling Vivaldi” which is a book that discusses stereotypes felt throughout society.  One of the contributors to the book was Valerie Purdie-Vaughns, who was also a student of the author Claude Steele.  The speaker was Valerie Purdie-Vaughns and I heard from a majority of professors that she was going to be a very entertaining speaker and provide  interesting topics to cover.

Valerie Purdie-Vaughns had started off the convocation in a very exciting way.  She told the audience to participate in an activity where you would turn to the person sitting next to you and discuss what you wanted to do for a living after you got out of college.  I enjoyed this activity because I got to meet two new people and since this was at the beginning of the year it had helped me introduce myself to some new friends.  After the opener Valerie Purdie-Vaughns began to go over statistics.  One of these was the difference between math scores of men and women and how the stereotype affects women in a learning setting.  Although this information was pertinent to the discussion it was very similar to examples that we had read throughout “Whistling Vivaldi”.    It seemed like a general overview of tests throughout the book which in some ways could be helpful since the majority of students had to do an assignment concerning the book.  I was hoping that we would hear about different tests or different findings not mentioned in the book that she could provide for us .  Although I didn’t find the information she presented very interesting Valerie Purdie-Vaughns was a very good speaker and knew how to keep her audience interested   throughout the whole presentation.  I definitely recommend the convocation to any incoming freshmen in the future.

The Profession

During the days of October 9-13, the Stockton Theatre Club put on Walter Wykes’ tragicomedy, The Profession in the experimental theatre. It was directed by Dan Cerullo, and featured three actors, Jeremy Rotolo, Taylor Cawley, and Ryan Gorman. The second night of the show I helped sell concessions as well as watching the show. The fifth night I went again, but solely as an audience member. The first night was fun and I saw a lot of the comedy and laughed.

Moments were absolutely hysterical, Taylor’s facial expressions were beyond compare, and Jeremy’s timid sense of being was always there for a laugh, while Ryan’s intimidating nature only increased the comedy with him and Jeremy. While the show had its serious moments it was on an overall, funny and quite enjoyable. I found myself laughing as Taylor, portraying the character of Ibid, would creepily smile her way through lines. I couldn’t take Jeremy too seriously as I watched his character of Eugene fumble over words in the beginning, laughing the whole time. Ryan too, had a smile on my face as he played Schäffer, found a way to always get just a little too close to Eugene, and had the audience laughing. The first night I saw the show was full of smiles and laughter, while the second night of seeing the show brought me something entirely different.

The second night of the show brought about a whole new set of emotions. Instead of seeing the comedy I found a more disturbing show. I found Ryan’s booming voice chilling, Taylor’s eerie smile and constant reactions that were just too quick, Jeremy’s questioning of power and society. The show and the plot continually brought my mind to darker places, as the motives behind actions switched from comical to tragic. The monologues became disturbing and unnerving, as the cruel side of humanity was revealed.

The longer I watched the show the more disturbed and moved I felt. Instead of comedy I found a deeper meaning. It was amazing how much a show can change in your mind as you view it more than once. I wish I could have gone all of the nights to see a greater progression in my views of the show. Theatre is an amazing thing, and the change and progression in a show is even more amazing. I cannot wait for the upcoming show, Hello Herman. 

Books Without Borders

Anthony Gingerelli
Event Blog 3
11/19/15
Book without Borders is a fun community service based club. This club is very active at Stockton University and impacts people all over the world. The purpose behind Books without Borders is to supply books to those less fortunate, allowing them to further their education by supplying them with books. The meetings are very relaxed as there is a lot of brainstorming and planning occurring during the entire time. Students will plan events, review future “days of service” and collect any books people have brought in to store in the trailer. These events they plan are called “days of service.” These days are scheduled on their own or in conjunction with Stockton’s day of service. There are several steps involved in this community based service from planning to shipping. At these events students move the books from the storage and bring them into the school. They then organize the books into the categories and genre. After reorganizing them, we repack them so they are ready to be shipped. Then the books get shipped out to a variety of locations, depending on the need at the time. We send them to local Stockton communities, to other New Jersey locations as well as across the country and world, where people are desperate for books.
In addition to the meetings and days of service, they will have club meetings which take place in the actual warehouse. Here students are proactive and get a head start to reorganize the books so when the scheduled days of arrive, all the books will be packed and ready be carried out and sent to the shipping location. This makes the process much faster and efficient for the club and everyone in it.
Books without Borders is one of the most active clubs on the Stockton campus. Not only being one of the most vigorous clubs, it is one of the most prominent clubs. They have a significant impact for people not only in our local area but across the globe. Joining Books without Borders would be a great way to impact others who are less fortunate but choose to be educated and make a better life for themselves.

Silent Library

On Tuesday, September 17, Stockton Entertainment Team (S.E.T.) sponsored an event called Silent Library. In accordance with the popular television show, the objective of the game remained the same: do not laugh, regardless of whatever ridiculous activity a teammate may undertake. When my best friend and I arrived at the event, we had no intention of actually playing the game—we consider ourselves viewers, not doers—however, we promptly learned all who attend must participate. In retrospect, I am thankful for this rule.

Lacking four more people to round off our team, I quickly called another friend I had made during Welcome Week. He was conveniently with three others, so I instructed them all to run like the wind down to the event room! Upon our entrance, we were greeted by the always friendly members of S.E.T., and they told us to help ourselves to frozen yogurt and fresh fruit. After loading up our bowls, we sat down and waited for the games to begin.

While our team anxiously anticipated our turn, we witnessed unlucky participants dancing in tutus and being subjected to pie-eating contests. Alas, it was our turn! We were the last team to go, and perhaps I am biased, but I believe we had the worst challenges. For one of the challenges, we had to play leap frog. This does not sound too embarrassing until factoring in being watched by a crowd and jumping over the heads of people met less than an hour ago. While we did laugh quite a bit during this challenge, our team was deemed successful and moved on to the next round. The final challenge was to have one person apply lipstick to each teammate’s face while blind-folded. Though I did not know the boy selected for this challenge before that night, we got acquainted pretty quickly as he stroked my face trying to find my lips. Despite his best efforts, he somehow always ended up drawing on either the chin or neck. Our team obviously lost this round.

In the end, all the humiliation was worth it because we were given prizes: a beach ball, lip balm, and a cell phone holder. A more important prize is the new friendships that were formed in the process of embarrassing ourselves. I applaud S.E.T. for helping people step out of their comfort zones. I certainly benefited from attending this event. I made new friends and was given the chance to let loose and be silly.

Jiu-Jitsu Club Blog Post 3

Samuel Connery

Life of the Mind

Professor Lenard

13 October 2015

 

As high school came to an end I was upset over the possibility that my sports career was coming to a close.  I was only average when it came to the single sport I played which was track and field and knew it would be extremely difficult for me to make the team.  In order to make up for the lack of physical activity I got while playing sports in high school, I knew that I had to find an activity to keep me active.  After discussing club possibilities with my one friend Klaudia, she had suggested that I sign up for Jiu-Jitsu club.  I was reluctant at first due to the problem that I had no prior fighting experience; however, I knew that I should learn some form of self-defense in case I was ever to put in a situation where I needed to protect myself.

As I arrived in the racquetball court room where jiu-jitsu meets, I was nervous to encounter what the club had in store for me.  As I got down and began to stretch, I scoped out the competition.  They all appeared very strong and each one looked as if they had prior training in jiu-jitsu.  Luckily for me the first hour of jiu-jitsu practice involved no one v. one situations.  It was just practicing moves for different positions that someone may find himself in when rolling with an opponent.  The practicing was helpful since it gave me some basic moves to practice.  The sensei was also walking around observing the groups and giving tips on how to properly perform the moves.  The hour passed quickly, and it was then time for the sensei to leave us.  This was not the end of practice for the club.  After the hour of learning the techniques, most members stay behind to learn to roll with another opponent and apply the techniques previously learned.  Particularly on my first day of rolling, I was destroyed by my opponents.  They were able to have me tap out in a matter of seconds.  Luckily for me, all the experience fighters recognized my lack of ability for the sport and began to teach me techniques as we were rolling.  They would stop as we were in the middle of rolling and give me tips such as how to break a hold or how to perform offensive moves like an arm bar.  I found this teach method a lot easier since it was a real fighting situation.  I feel that I’m improving more and more each lesson.  The club meetings have become the highlights of my Tuesdays and Thursdays and although I’m still in the early stages of training, I believe that I’m going to stick with this club throughout the rest of my years at Stockton.

Multicultural Music Festival

On Wednesday, October 9th, the Stockton Entertainment Team held a Multicultural Music Festival in the Campus Center Coffee House. The festival included musical acts by several clubs and organizations as well as a buffet of foods from various countries such as pierogies, lo mein, and even popsicles.

Over the course of the event’s two hour run, many groups participated, and the tables were filled with interested students, showing their support for a more accepting and well-informed society. Some of the highlights of the evening include a step team routine, a hip hop quiz, a signed song, and an acapella performance. The step routine, presented by the Caribbean Student Association, was a rhythmic and entertaining display by three talented students who were met by loud applause at the end. After this routine, the United Black Student Society came up on stage to test the viewers’ knowledge of the hip hop genre. The UBSS representatives read lyrics to various songs, then gave a list of possible artists, asking the audience to guess which of the artists were responsible for the lyrics. Participants from the audience seemed excited as they successfully guessed each answer and were rewarded with bracelets. Next, the American Sign Language Club gave a performance to the song “Roar” by Katy Perry. As the music played in the background, eight of the club’s members stood on stage, signing the words to the song in a mesmerizing display of hands in motion. When the acapella group came on stage, everyone, even people from the Gaming Club meeting upstairs, gathered around to listen to their two songs.

All in all, the Multicultural Music Festival was a successful event, spreading awareness of other cultures and traditions through fun music and delicious food. I would definitely recommend watching (or even participating in) this festival if it is held again next year.

Day of Service Blog

Samuel Connery                                                                                                                                               Blog Post #1

Professor Lenard                                                                                                                                             9/14/15

 

The day of service was quite the interesting experience.  When I had first signed up for it back in the summer I had assumed that the day was going to be filled with working on small projects throughout the day to give to the people who are less fortunate.  Rather the day was mostly filled with sitting through presentations on different services that are offered as clubs at the school or the surrounding area.  This provided an interesting opportunity to find a service club that was best suited for me.

Out of all the presentations that I saw, I believe Green Dot was the most intriguing to me.  Green Dot in an organization that encourages people to stop potentially dangerous situations, known as red dots, by having someone intervene in some form either through words or actions.  The people who were intervening and trying to help the situation were known as the green dots.  The speaker had helped me realize that there were situations that I’ve encountered in my own life that I could have helped make better through stepping in.  In order to help in these situations, the organization needs more people to become aware of how to become a green dot so that there’s a better chance that they will be there to stop a red dot.  This group teaches people the proper way to intervene in dangerous situations so they can help defuse the situations.

Although the day was mainly filled with presentations, there was one activity during the day that actually made me feel like I was actively helping others.  The name of the group was Books without Borders, which is an organization that collects books to give to people in other areas that have a hard time accessing books.  The organization had us actively work by unloading boxes of books from their vans and then categorize them into subjects and from there repackage the books in other boxes.  The process made me feel that I was putting my time to good use at the day of service, and it was also the kind of thing that I was expecting the day of service to be.  Since there was a large amount of people that had signed up for the Day of Service the club was able to get many hours of hard work which they wouldn’t have if they had just worked with the members of their club.  I felt this Day of Service was extremely valuable to this club just because of the amount of work that we were able to help them finish in such a short amount of time.

Above all, I believe that the Day of Service was a valuable source of information to learn about different community service groups around the school.  Next year I hope that the Day of Service has more active projects, such as making care packages.  I do now feel that I have a better understanding of the community service opportunities here at Stockton and hope to get involved with at least on sometime soon.