Day of Service

On September 7, 2013, the Campus Center Event Room was filled to the brim with students clad in black t-shirts, all clamoring for a seat at their desired service project’s table. This frenzied scene can only be Stockton’s 10th annual Day of Service. Luckily, my two friends and I had gotten there early enough to receive our desired service project helping Shore Park Tenant Association with an end-of-summer barbeque. We were going to be working with three other girls and our two project leaders.
A half hour later the army of buses were packed and set off for Atlantic City. We arrived at our destination ten minutes later and were greeted by the president of Shore Park Tenant Association. She told us a little about the residents and how many of them are disabled, elderly, or previously homeless. Shore Park provides them with housing and makes it easy for them to get around. The president also filled us in on all the events, from bingo to music nights, which Shore Park puts on for its residents. The end of summer barbeque, however is by far a crowd favorite.
We then received a tour of the main hall and garden where the barbeque would take place. After that, for the first hour or so, it seemed as if the organization didn’t need our help cooking, grilling ribs, or doing any heavy grunt work. My group and I stood at ease, ready to jump and seize any opportunity to help, even with small things like rolling utensils or moving a table.
When the food came out, it was definitely a sight to behold. With hamburgers, hot dogs, potato salad, fresh crabs, corn on the cob, ribs, salad, and a plethora of cakes, there was enough food to feed an army. Our job was to help serve all of it, and I got put on crab duty.
Immediately after the residents started to trickle into the hall, our idleness was no more. Each one of us was busy serving food and helping residents, especially those who were disabled, receive the food they wanted. As the person in charge of the crabs, I was to take exactly four freshly cooked crabs out of a wooden barrel, wrap them in newspaper, and dole them out to whoever wanted them, which was almost everyone. Many people were eager to make sure I gave them the right amount of crabs, especially the legs.
All of the residents were extremely grateful for our help and of course the free food. They could not stop saying “thank you” and it was heartwarming to see the smiles on their faces. Even though I clearly smelt of crabs the rest of the day, I enjoyed my time there and realized that the day was not just about serving food, but making people feel loved and cared about. Though I wish we could have done more to help at first, my first Day of Service at Stockton was a memorable and enlightening experience; it is definitely something I would participate in again.

Send Silence Sailing

As a disclosure, I would like to point out that the event I plan to write about in this blog has not yet happened. However, the preparation that the event entails is a true testament to how much is involved in putting an event together. As secretary of Active Minds Club, I have learned what the club stands for and what it takes to spread its message to other students. On October 22nd, the club is hosting an event to raise awareness on suicide rate among students in college. An average of 1,100 college students commit suicide every year. To spread the word on campus, the club is making 1,100 origami sailboats and hanging them in the trees to “Send Silence Sailing.” Students struggling with mental disorders such as depression and anxiety sometimes do not get the help they need, and it is imperative to break that cycle. Even making the slightest impact in the thoughts of students will make a difference and satisfy the goals of the club.

Through holding an officer position in the club, I have learned a variety of important skills such as leadership, communication, initiative and teamwork. My friend Nicole and I had arranged for all the girls on our dorm floor to help with folding the sailboats, a demonstration of initiative and teamwork. In pursuit of making this event successful, brainstorming with the president and the club has given insight as what to do for food and entertainment. Catering was established for the food and music will be played during the event. Competitions for prizes on the day of the event will be used to peak interest and encourage participation. As a way to make a difference aside from raising awareness, forms to detect mental disorders will be given at the table. After all the ideas voiced, emails sent and boats folded, Active Minds is fully prepared for the event on Tuesday.

Kappa Sigma Wing-Bowl

On Tuesday November 17th, Kappa Sigma’s Xi-Rho chapter hosted their annual Wing Bowl event. The event was held at JD’s Pub and Grill in Smithville, which is approximately ten minutes away from campus. Although it was a fraternity sponsored event, it was open to everyone, whether or not they are involved in Greek life. Tickets for the Wing Bowl were sold in lower D Wing near the computer lab wing.

The night of the event was very exciting. Many people filtered through the pub enjoying wings and each other’s company. Kappa Sigma brothers were stationed throughout the cozy pub helping the night move smoothly. If students did not purchase tickets during tabling, which occurred on; Thursday, the twelfth, Monday, the sixteenth, and Tuesday, the seventeenth, they had the option to buy them at the door for the same prices, five dollars for six wings, or for ten dollars, students could participate in an exhilarating wing competition to win some cool prizes. The winner of this year’s Wing Bowl was Aaron Reader, a Kappa Sigma brother. The contest challenged anyone interested to eat ten chicken wings as fast as possible.

The money raised by the event went to Kappa Sigma’s philanthropy, the Military Heroes Campaign, and totalled $1,031. This charity works closely with organizations such as The Fisher House to help aid thousands of veterans and their families in America. I believe that this event can be considered a success. The fraternity gained positive exposure to possible rushes and towards the school and they were able to raise a decent amount of money to donate to a positive cause.

Stockton Soccer Game

On Friday, September 11 the men’s soccer team went up against Rensselaer. Both teams entered this game with an undefeated record (Stockton 3-0 and Rensselaer 4-0) to begin the Stockton Seashore Classic.

The game started out slow, having the first goal coming at minute 41 with a penalty kick by Clevon McPherson giving Stockton a 1-0 lead heading into halftime. Unfortunately this would wind up being Stockton’s only goal of the game. As we entered the next half, McPherson received a red card so Stockton had to play down a man. Rensselaer was able to score on the following free kick. It took just a few more minutes for them to score their second goal, bringing the score to 2-1.

Even though the Ospreys were playing down a man, they still put up a good fight toward the end, with their total of 10 shots throughout the game, but Rensselaer’s goalkeeper Ryan Nealon did a great job protecting his goal. The last few minutes were full of suspense as Stockton consistently came closer and closer to making the game tying goal, but they were just unable to overcome the fact that they were down a man. The Osprey’s suffered their first loss of the season to start the Stockton Seashore Classic. They can only hope to be better prepared for their next game against Mary Washington.

Tunes at Noon

Every Wednesday around 12 p.m. students can listen to a vast variety of music in the Campus Center by the Dunkin Donuts.  While eating some lunch or just killing time in between classes, students have the option of grabbing a table and enjoying the sweet melodies from different bands, solo artists, and even impersonators. “Tunes at Noon” is a fantastic way to give students that extra push to get through the rest of the week. This weekly event allows students to become more aware of local bands and artists. It also allows these musicians to showcase their artistic abilities. “Tunes at Noon” displays musicians of all different kinds of music genres to keep every student on campus entertained and satisfied.

There are many different bands and artists who performed in the fall semester of 2013 for “Tunes at Noon”. Some of these bands and artists include Brent and Company, a reggae oriented band, Elaine Faye, a solo artist whose music is considered soft rock, and even a professional Michael Jackson impersonator. There is always someone new performing in the Campus Center for “Tunes at Noon” which makes every Wednesday that more exciting. Country bands, soft rock artists, reggae musicians, punk rock bands, and impersonators are just a few of the types of entertainment that cab be found in the Campus Center all because of “Tunes at Noon”. If a student has a passion for music, wants to know more about local bands and artists, or just wants an escape from the “middle of the week” blues, all they have to do is stop by the Campus Center and enjoy some music.

Stockton Activity – 3

For my third Stockton Event of the semester, I chose to attend the Girl Rising movie screening on Tuesday, November 19th.  It was held in the Alton Auditorium at 4:30 PM and lasted approximately ninety minutes. The event functioned as both a Reflection Session and Dialogue Session through the Office of Service Learning. I decided to attend the event because I wanted to learn more about the film’s mission to educate a greater number of women globally.

The film presented the stories of nine different girls and their struggles against slavery, sexual abuse and poverty. Girl Rising advocates for more widespread access to education for girls. The campaign highlights the impact that education can have on women’s lives. According to the film, 65 million girls are not enrolled in school globally and that two-thirds of the world’s illiterate population are women. Interestingly, for every extra year of education they receive, girls earn 20% more money. Also, the film asserted that if India enrolled 1% more girls in secondary school, its GDP would rise by $5.5 billion. Girl Rising demonstrated the social and economic value in educating females that I previously was unaware of.  Following the screening of the film, a brief question and answer session was held.

Aside from being informative about the problems with global education, the event demonstrated that many fellow Stockton students are concerned with the impact and availability of education worldwide. I enjoyed the event and would recommend watching Girl Rising to learn more about educational inequality throughout the world.

Humans Versus Zombies

Beginning at midnight on Monday October 14th and continuing through Friday the 18th the Stockton Gaming Club hosted a week long game of tag with a twist. Humans versus Zombies is a campus-wide game open to all students. Zombies are distinguished by wearing a green band around their head, whereas humans have a band around their arms. Approximately 200 students registered online to play and out of those students one was chosen as the “original zombie.”  The original zombie wears his band around his arm like a human until he is discovered and then moves his band to his head like the other zombies. Once a human is tagged by a zombie, he too becomes a zombie. Humans carry nerf guns and balled up socks to protect themselves from the hordes of zombies. Once a zombie is hit he is considered frozen for ten minutes and cannot tag any humans. Every night there are missions for the humans which include a variety of tasks for them to complete. Prior to the mission on Monday night 17 people had been turned into zombies. Although 17 is a small number in comparison to 158 humans, panic had already set in on campus. The zombies move in packs in order to increase their chances of getting a tag. Humans also quickly develop allies in an effort to survive. The first mission which led the humans down Dark Path resulted in a terrifying chase around the lake. The campus filled with paranoia as the human numbers began to dwindle. Tuesday’s mission started the humans in F court and led them to the Unified Science Center. Zombies anxiously awaited their arrival and hid along Dark and Light Path. Wednesday’s mission sent humans to Housing 2, Housing 4, and Lake Pam with an optional trek to the observatory in search of puzzle pieces. The zombies divided themselves and went in groups to the four locations. My group was sent behind Housing 2 where we waited in the woods, for 45 minutes, for humans to arrive. After Wednesday’s mission the numbers changed in favor of the zombies. There are also vaccines hidden all of over campus that allow humans to recover after a zombie tags them. On Wednesday, a new element was incorporated into the game. Anyone wearing an orange band is considered military. The military is allowed to tag humans and to stun zombies. By Thursday afternoon the human numbers have dwindled to 57 with 158 zombies. Thursday’s mission has yet to be disclosed with multiple rumors going around, but one thing is for certain; it will be a blood bath. With the end of the week quickly approaching the only real question left is, will humanity survive or will the zombies overrun the campus?

Active Minds Conference

Taylor Adams

On the weekend of November 15th, several of the officers of Active Minds club attended the Tenth Annual National Active Minds Conference. The trip was open and free for all club members. The event took place at Georgetown University in Washington, D.C. Club members from all over the country were in attendance. The national organization represents over 400 chapters that share the common goal of raising awareness about mental health issues among college students. Attendees had their pick on a variety of activities from workshops to speakers to singers. On the first day, one fellow member and I attended an interactive leadership seminar. The speaker running the program was an incredibly humble and welcoming person. She radiated confidence and life. Later on, we discovered that she is currently recovering from an eating disorder and depression. Her story touched many and reminded us why we were carrying out this mission. We learned a myriad of skills and tips as well as life lessons.

The day was concluded with the annual Stomp Out Stigma Walk which represented putting an end to harmful titles attached to people because of their differences. We were given our choice of color glow stick. The color we chose was symbolic for the reasons we were participating in the walk: for a friend, for a family member, for yourself, to change the world. The following day consisted of more insightful workshops about club recruitment and retention and fundraising tactics to keep the clubs running strong. The third day we were introduced to the Strangers Project. The founder Brandon explained his global work of collecting strangers’ stories. It started with him simply sitting in a coffee shop with a large sign that read, “What’s your story?” He sparked people’s attention and has acquired over 7000 stories around the world. This inspired us to start something similar in the Stockton community. All in all, the trip was an incredible experience that opened our eyes to new opportunities and perspectives that we can utilize at Stockton in reaching our ultimate goal.

A Night of Rocky Horrors

The air is cold and dark on Halloween night at Stockton. Many people went home but those who stayed are building anticipation for the Stockton Theatre Club’s performance of Rocky Horror Picture Show. As guests enter the room, there are many actors and actresses in costumes to greet them and guide the guests to their seats. The actors do not go about interacting with guests normally. There are conversations with crude humor and laughter. Each guests who has not seen Rocky Horror Picture Show before that night is labeled as a “virgin” with a large, red letter V on their foreheads. There is a prop table with an array of items in the corner, where audience members can grab one to two props to use during the show. Once everyone makes their way to their seats, the shenanigans of the night begin.

Before the production begins, the actors and actresses around the room gather audience members to play games on the stage. The first game is played with coconuts. Players must partner up with a person they do not know, and start by holding a coconut between their bodies at the stomach. The goal is to move the coconut, without using hands, up one another’s bodies so that it is held between the partners’ necks. Players wiggle awkwardly against one another to move their coconuts. Some succeed and others drop their coconuts, letting them roll onto the ground below. After everyone returns to their seats more crude comedy and laughter fills the room, and more games are played. Once 8:15 p.m. arrives, the actors reside to the corners of the room and the production begins.

The lights dim and a movie reel begins on the screen. As the movie plays, actors dressed like the characters on screen act out the scenes on stage. The actors mimic lines only by moving their lips, all of the singing and speaking comes from the sound in the film. It is an interesting way to portray the story, but very entertaining for the audience. Throughout the production, the audience is asked to use their different props in certain scenes to add interaction. The actors walk and dance through the audience as they perform, some sitting on laps and some pulling audience members up to dance. The whole room feels whimsical and fun. Each actor does an excellent job at portraying their characters and each audience member gets into the story enthusiastically.

When the show ends, the audience is in uproar. Cheers and laughter show how well of a job the actors have done on stage. When leaving, the actors continue to interact with guests, keeping the fun atmosphere alive. The Stockton Theatre Club has, yet again, put on a fabulous show. The audience leaves feeling happy and carefree, on their way o enjoy the remaining hours of Halloween night.

Shore Park Tenant Association Service

Stockton’s 10th annual day of service was a great turn out. There were lines stretched to the door in the campus center of students waiting in line to sign in for the day of service. We were provided with breakfast and were given boxed lunches. After breakfast the ambassadors of the day ushered the students into the event room which was filled with tables. On the website there was a very brief overview of what each service project was for. My friends and I were a few of the first people to arrive in the event room so we had a lot of options. A majority of the time we wandered around the room trying to decide which project to choose. The big screens with a description of each service project were helpful and in the end a couple of my friends and I chose the Shore Park Tenant Association.
It was a group of about five students and two service project leaders. The main point of our service project was to help prepare and serve the food for a party at the Shore Park Tenant Association, which is a home for the elderly and disabled. We sat around the table and introduced ourselves while waiting quite a long time to be dismissed. We were transported to the Tenant home by a van, except not everyone could fit so the professors took their own car. When we arrived at the place we were very unsure of whether we were even at the right place. We hadn’t obtained any of the professors’ phone numbers so we just walked in. Thankfully there were people expecting us and welcomed us. After getting there most of the tables were already set up so we really didn’t have much to do. We sat around and waited for instructions while the people of the tenant home prepared the food. For a while I helped in the kitchen and cut ribs but did not do much else afterwards. After about an hour of chit chat we finally started to help set up. Around noon the tenants started coming to the dining hall and we started serving food.
Many of the people there were very friendly and extremely excited to get all their food. We took turns at different stations serving food or bringing it to the tables. Some of the tenants had their grandchildren over so I had the chance to take a few kids to the garden in the backyard and play with them. We all were supposed to leave around 2:30, but left a little later. We really should have stayed longer because there were still many tenants that were coming down to eat. If the timing had been better we could have arrived later so that we would have been more involved in serving food. Then we could have left later so that we could have helped with the entire cleanup process, because that was probably the thing they would have needed the most help with.
Overall the entire experience was quite rewarding. I enjoyed being able to help people and interact with them. There were many things, however, that could have been better. First of all, there should be better organization in the event room so that everyone is fully informed of what they are volunteering for. Also the people running the volunteer place did not seem like they were prepared with tasks for the volunteers. If they were more prepared for us then we would have been much more helpful to them. At the end of the day we had a mini reflection session and everyone seemed to enjoy their day except for the waiting around. Next time I hope to feel that I was able to provide more of a service instead of feeling like I spent most of my time waiting around.