Service Learning

After the headache so to speak of the first semester Professor Rosner smoothed things out with the Service Learning Office in order to make our honors experience much better. We have a paper that needs to get signed whenever we go to a dialogue or reflection the staff member from service learning signs it. This helps alleviate the added stress of being a guinea pig from the fall semester. In the fall semester we were required to go to three dialogues and two reflections; now we only have to go to one dialogue and two reflections. I think that the two-page write ups after the service learning projects are extremely helpful because they help you reflect the most. You get a sense of exactly how important your service is whether it is on-campus or off-campus or short-term or long-term. Any amount of volunteering is beneficial to both the volunteer and the organization. I have always enjoyed volunteering but I never sat down and thought about the difference that I make during my volunteering. I also think that the service learning aspect of the Honor’s program is an awesome thing to be able to put on your transcript because it shows that you went above and beyond the call of duty during your four years of college. Not every school offers the same opportunities that Stockton College does. I also think that Stockton does an excellent job making your volunteer idea come to life.

MLK Day of Service

On January 16, 2011 the Martin Luther King Jr. Day of Service kicked off with a huge turnout.  However, not all students contributed by participating in service per say.  Some very talented dancers and singers opened up the MLK Day of Service to show their appreciation for Martin Luther King Jr. and those being able to do the service itself.

There were several keynote speakers and performances done for the nearly 500 students participating in the service day.  Awards were given to children for a picture contest, speakers spoke of service and such, dancers did interpretive and group dances to songs about power and service, and various members of Stockton A Capella sang a moving song, “We Shall Overcome.”

The arrangement was simple but beautiful and moving.  Accompanied by Beverly Vaughn, the members of Stockton A Capella sang this moving song of overcoming struggle and hardship, which Martin Luther King Jr. did so many decades ago for the civil rights movement.  The few short verses were full of power and unity, especially evident when the members of Stockton A Capella held hands and the crowd joined in.  With everyone hand in hand and singing, I believe Martin Luther King Jr. would have been very proud to see so many different people together and preparing to do service.

I was fortunate enough to be part of the MLK Day of Service as a member of Stockton A Capella, and I hope next year to be an even bigger part of it when I perform service to the community as well.  All of the students seemed very empowered by our song, and I know that all went well that day with dedication to unity and service in their hearts.

Kenny Ambrose
Professor Rodriguez
Life of the Mind
November 21, 2012
Doing Service Learning
In the third weekend of the month of November, I traveled home for the first time since starting college back in August. While I was back visiting, I got the opportunity to complete my second required volunteer activity for the service learning part of the honors program. On Sunday the eighteenth, I walked with the Montgomery County 4-H Seeing Eye Puppy Club, in which I am a member, in the Lansdale, Pennsylvania Mardi Gras parade. I arrived at our meeting place around noon and from there we were driven to a small side street to wait in line for the parade to begin. We waited around for about an hour till the parade progressed enough for us to begin walking. We then followed our predecessors off the side street and onto Main Street in Lansdale. For members who had puppy they were training, they walked in a group the middle of the street; but since the last dog my family raised was sent back for formal Seeing Eye training a few months ago, I was not able to walk with them. Instead, I walked on the side of the street with a basket of dog treats. My job was to hand out dog biscuits to people that had a dog with them as they were watching. Even though it was a little cold out, there was a decent amount of people watching the parade, compared to previous years, and I gave out a good number of dog biscuits. In all, the walk took about an hour to travel about twenty blocks with the parade. I like doing activities like this with the Seeing Eye Puppy Club and I will continue to participate in the parade with them.

Stockton A Capella Concert

On November 30, 2011 a glorious a capella concert put on by Stockton A Capella was performed in the Campus Center Theater.  Stockata (the all female group), Stocktones (mixed group), and Stockapella (competition group), all performed several songs from several different eras.

The members of Stockata were introduced as the Rising Stars with their colors being black and purple.  Their a capella arrangements included Firework by Katy Perry, Jar of Hearts by Christina Perri, Fallin’ by Alicia Keys, and Heard It Through the Grapevine by Marvin Gaye. I was a soloist for Grapevine. There was some choreography involved, and even though there was no bass because there were no males, the arrangements were both beautiful and sophisticated.

Stocktones were the Underdogs in blue and black and sang many different songs as well.  The most notable were 21 Guns, Black Bird, and a mashup by the Jackson 5.  They had a bit more choreography and a few more songs that the new Stockata group, and their talent was just as magnificent.

Stockapella were the Undefeated in yellow and black. Their opener, One Day, had an amazing soloist and plenty of choreography.  They even lifted a girl into the air!  Their beat boxers were also right on target.

A beat box battle ensued at intermission with the audience being able to participate, and at the end, all of the groups sang Happy Ending.  There was so much energy and talent that night!

It was amazing to start my first semester of college as a member of Stockata.  Even though we had to see our president go (with a gift of flowers from all of us), it was a glorious experience to have such a great concert!  Hopefully the Spring concert is just as amazing!

Circle K-Project Linus

I worked with Circle K and I made hand-stitched teddy bears for terminally ill children. This is just one of the many projects that Circle K allows for volunteers to engage in on our own campus. Some of their other activities include on campus service on Wednesday nights, volunteering with beagles on Saturday mornings and they serve food in Atlantic City at a soup kitchen.

In order to be able to participate in this activity I attended Circle K’s first meeting for the spring semester and I signed up to make bears for terminally ill children because I love kids and I felt like this opportunity was the most appealing to me. I went to the upper level of the Campus Center and picked out some blue-tie-dyed fabric. In order to make the bear I had to pick up a template and then fold the fabric in half in order to lay the template on top of it. I pinned the template on the fabric and cut around the edges very carefully because I did not want to have an imperfect bear. Then I took the template off pinned the fabric back together and picked up my needle and thread. I threaded the needle with blue thread and tied my knot to ensure a tight, everlasting stitch. Once I finished sealing the edges I turned the teddy bear inside out and began to stuff him. After the teddy bear reached his fill I sewed his last little opening up and drew eyes, a nose, and a mouth on his face.

I felt a sense of completion after I had invested about two and a half hours into this little teddy bear; in a way I felt attached to it. I had sewn the teddy bear with my love and care for a child. I can only imagine this child’s reaction upon receiving my little, fluffy creation. I wonder if a boy or girl will be the new owner, but it does not matter because he or she will greatly appreciate this bear.

 

“The ‘I’ of the Storm: Understanding the Suicidal Mind”

On Tuesday, November 13th, a friend of mine suggested that I attend a lecture with her.  She told me that it was on suicide prevention and would occur at 4:30pm in the Alton Auditorium.  Since I was free that evening and wanted to accompany her, I decided to attend.  When we arrived at the auditorium, I was surprised by the amount of people in attendance.  I thought the event would be small, personal, and perhaps to some people therapeutic.  However, when the lecture began, it was extremely factual, analytic and seemingly coldhearted.  I later found out that it was not a suicide prevention program.  It was actually a psychological analysis on suicide titled “The ‘I’ of the Storm: Understanding the Suicidal Mind”.  Throughout the event I was rather confused, but the lecture was very informative and interesting

The lecture was given by Dr. David Lester, a psychology professor here at Richard Stockton College.  He focused on the analysis of suicide letters and diaries of various people.  The objective of the study was to find out similarities between victims of suicide.  The victims were of all different backgrounds and no two situations were alike.  However, after much analysis by experts, an acronym was formed to describe common signs of the suicidal mind.  This acronym is ‘IS PATH WARM’: Ideation, Substance abuse, Purposelessness, Anxiety, Trapped, Hopelessness, Withdrawal, Anger, Recklessness, and Mood change.  Dr. Lester explained that while not all people show all of these signs, they are the most frequent.

Dr. Lester spoke of many people, some famous, some average, and some college students like myself.  One of which was a girl named Katie, who was the sister of one of his students.  She left behind a diary of her thoughts and feelings spanning the last few years of her life up to her death.  The diary demonstrated some trends found in victims of suicide and was referred to frequently throughout the lecture. 

The event ended with Dr. Lester concluding that there are no straightforward signs of a suicidal mind.  Every case was very unique and different.  Therefore, no concrete trends could be found.  Although this appears to be anticlimactic, it was a reassuring ending.  He also left some phone numbers for suicide prevention and conveyed a sympathetic tone throughout the lecture.  Understanding the suicidal mind was informative and helpful in coping with such a horrible tragedy.

Blog 11: Hypnotist

On January 31st, Stockton had the honor of hosting a hypnotist in the Campus Center.  He began by wowing the crowd with a card trick and a volunteer from the audience.  Then he asked for volunteers to be hypnotized.  My friends and I eagerly ran up to the stage.  I think I was hypnotized but I still remember everything that happened.  First he took a long time putting us to sleep.  It was very relaxing actually! I slumped forward in my chair while the people next to me began to sleep on me.  When he first started telling us things to do I was too tired to respond. Eventually I started doing little gestures.  I knew everything he said wasn’t real, but I could see some of the scenes he described to us perfectly, like the beach or flying the plane.  He told us to imagine an animal we want on our lap and I saw a baby unicorn!  I knew these animals were imaginary, but when someone said they had a tarantula I jumped on my friend next to me in fright!  I could hear all the silly things go on, like a guy giving birth, but I had trouble opening my eyes to see it all.  All in all, I wasn’t really hypnotized, just extremely sleepy.

Blog 10: Giving Blood (Spring)

I gave blood for the second time this school year on January 26th 2012.  Since it was my fourth time giving blood I generally knew what to expect, but I swear each time it just gets easier and easier.  Not just from my experience, but from the American Red Cross workers who take your blood.  The workers just seem to get nicer and friendlier each time I go.  When I gave blood in high school, the workers made me feel like that this was just their job and nothing more, like they just wanted to get on with their day.  But when I gave blood this semester it was a totally different atmosphere.  The people that assisted me in the registration and the donating process were very friendly and tried to make the normally boring process fun and interesting.  They talked to me about my interests and this took away most of the pain and nervousness from the donating process.  One worker even informed me that my first and middle name was a song, which I never in my 19 years of life knew!  Also, the Red Cross has these new wipes that completely wipe away all the iodine they use to clean your arm before they put the needle in.  No more yellow, sticky arm for the rest of the day after you donate!  I’m really glad Stockton offers this opportunity for us twice a year to help save lives and make a difference.  I will most certainly be donating again.

 

Myths and Legends

The night of October 4th was an exciting time for many Stockton residents, due to the free showing of the highly acclaimed Ted movie in the Campus Center.  But, for a small group of students and staff, the real thrill of the night was being featured in Alton Auditorium.  The event was the fifth annual Myths and Legends session, and seemed to be a much better learning experience than a talking teddy bear.

As in previous years, Myths and Legends featured a panel of past Stockton professors who have been with the school since it’s founding.  These men and women were kind enough to donate their time and knowledge, but they seemed to enjoy the experience just as much as the listeners.  In fact, it seemed that they cherished their visit here, using the time for reminiscing and bonding with long-time friends.  They almost seemed to forget the audience was present at some points, but that just added to the magic of the occasion; it was an honor to be listening in on such a personal conversation.  Their words flowed effortlessly between topics, interrupting and supporting each other as best friends do.

A recurring theme was the informality of the school in the past.  They mentioned living and working in the Mayflower hotel, partying with students, interacting with bums, drunks, and hookers, classes dedicated to sex, UFOs, and Ouija boards, and skinny dipping in Lake Fred.  And, rather than being ashamed of these possible felonies and questionable morals, the elders displayed a clear sense of pride at the history that they helped form.

This knowledge rattled me, for obvious reasons.  Until that day, I never truly pondered the origins of Richard Stockton College.  But now I look at the school I currently attend and think about the madness that it once was.  Despite everything, it is with a sense of pride that I ponder the intricate past of this seemingly innocent college. Naturally I consider the reverse situation, as if it was I who was on stage, talking lovingly about my cherished undergrad years.  Should such a situation ever arise, I hope that my stories are half as interesting as those heard on October 4th.

 

Blog 9: MLK Day of Service

On January 16 I attended the MLK Day of Service.  The event was similar to the Day of Service in the fall, except in the beginning they paid tribute to Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. with art and speeches and songs.  Then we split off into our service projects.  I was with the Girl Scouts, which was interesting to me because I used to be a Girl Scout for many years.  In this group I made cute snowman rulers to give to day cares.  I also wrote and decorated many letters to give to the people currently serving our country abroad.  I didn’t want my cards to have the same generic stuff the soldiers see all the time, so I wrote some corny jokes in hopes of bringing a little humor into their lives and brightening their day.  This service project was nice because in a way I was helping three organizations.  I helped the day cares by making them the rulers.  I helped the soldiers by writing them letters.  And also in a way I helped the Girl Scouts because usually its just a group of little girls who does all that work.  Instead, I was able to help them make a bigger difference with their efforts.